At least you'll know and be able to stop expecting what you'll never get from them. Or to know they really don't care about you. Let your own commitment and improvement of your listening and relationship behavior give them reason to listen to you. Ask the same from them but do not make this a competition. To reduce your frustration and pain frequency, and improve your life and be really loved and loving, decide to apply your actions and all your energy to doing what is necessary to listen, honor and really love them.

It also destroys the relationship as you and they wish it to be. It is unloving and disrespectful to not listen, especially to those you 'love' and who you want to love you. Coma marriages, and business partner marriages and love relationships, are deadly lonely ways to live that none of us deserve. And divorce is only one way it is too late. The more you are honest and deal with your true reality, the better your chances are of dealing with it constructively before it is too late. You know the answer to that question by measuring how often you are frustrated and hurt with them, and how often they are frustrated and hurt with you. How well do you listen to those you 'love' and how well do they listen to you? How would you answer that question? How would they answer that question about you? Listening, Frustrations, Love and Reality I can't thank her enough for her support, encouragement and her candor. Her ARM Strategy has helped me change my pattern of communication, which has left me standing tall and strong in a situation that could have broken me down. She doesn't let anything slip past her and gently doesn't let you avoid the topic. She continues to draw out underlying issues and gives me the tools I need to continue to move forward. Testimonial: Rosalinda has been a tremendous asset to me during a very difficult time. Singles: Select Men and Women who can love you. Get angry, disagree and still stay loving.Ĭouples: Make your marriage easier and happier.

Marred for Life! by Jason Fulford